I'm never really quite sure what term to use when referring to black people. African-American seems to be "safe" because it's hard to take offense to that but I've seen some roll their eyes before and tell me to "just say black."

It is a dilemma because calling someone African-American can seem like an exaggerated effort to make sure no one is offended. Then again, calling someone black can seem like you're not taking care to be sensitive enough. It depends on who is listening.

Since black people feel differently on the subject, I think I'm just going to say black unless someone indicates a preference before or after the fact.